وَإِنِ ٱمْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنۢ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَآ أَن يُصْلِحَا بَيْنَهُمَا صُلْحًا ۚ وَٱلصُّلْحُ خَيْرٌ ۗ وَأُحْضِرَتِ ٱلْأَنفُسُ ٱلشُّحَّ ۚ وَإِن تُحْسِنُوا۟ وَتَتَّقُوا۟ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرًا 128
Translations
And if a woman fears from her husband contempt or evasion, there is no sin upon them if they make terms of settlement between them - and settlement is best. And present in [human] souls is stinginess. But if you do good and fear Allāh - then indeed Allāh is ever, of what you do, Aware.
Transliteration
Wa-in imra'atun khafat min ba'liha nushoozan aw i'raaḍan falaa junāḥa alayhimā an yuṣliḥā baynahumā ṣulḥan. Wa-aṣ-ṣulḥu khayrun. Wa-uḥḍirat al-anfusu ash-shuhh. Wa-in tuḥsinū wa-tattaqū fa-inna Allāha kāna bimā ta'malūna khabīran.
Tafsir (Explanation)
This ayah addresses the situation when a wife fears her husband's nushūz (aversion, abandonment, or ill-treatment) or i'rāḍ (turning away), permitting both spouses to seek reconciliation through mutual agreement without blame. The verse emphasizes that reconciliation (ṣulḥ) is superior to conflict, while acknowledging that human souls are naturally inclined toward self-interest (shuhh); however, those who demonstrate kindness and piety will be rewarded as Allah is fully aware of their deeds. Classical scholars like Al-Qurtubi and Ibn Kathir interpret this as establishing mutual rights and responsibilities within marriage, contrasting with the preceding verse (4:128) which addresses the husband's nushūz.
Revelation Context
This verse is part of Surah An-Nisa's comprehensive treatment of marital relations and women's rights, revealed in Medina. It appears in a passage dealing with marital discord and the remedies available to both spouses, reflecting the Islamic principle of preserving the marital bond through reconciliation while acknowledging the reality of human nature and its challenges.
Related Hadiths
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: 'The best of you are those who are best to their wives' (Jami' at-Tirmidhi). Additionally, the hadith 'Whoever among you can afford to marry should marry, for it helps lower the gaze and guards the private parts' (Sahih Bukhari) relates to the broader context of maintaining healthy marital relationships.
Themes
Key Lesson
This ayah teaches that marriage requires active effort from both partners to maintain harmony, and that seeking peaceful resolution over confrontation—even when requiring personal sacrifice—is spiritually superior and pleasing to Allah. It affirms that women have the agency and right to seek reconciliation on their own terms when their marriage faces difficulties.
Related Ayahs
۞ وَٱلْمُحْصَنَـٰتُ مِنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ إِلَّا مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَـٰنُكُمْ ۖ كِتَـٰبَ ٱللَّهِ عَلَيْكُمْ ۚ وَأُحِلَّ لَكُم مَّا وَرَآءَ ذَٰلِكُمْ أَن تَبْتَغُوا۟ بِأَمْوَٰلِكُم مُّحْصِنِينَ غَيْرَ مُسَـٰفِحِينَ ۚ فَمَا ٱسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْهُنَّ فَـَٔاتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً ۚ وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا تَرَٰضَيْتُم بِهِۦ مِنۢ بَعْدِ ٱلْفَرِيضَةِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا حَكِيمًا
And [also prohibited to you are all] married women except those your right hands possess. [This is] the decree of Allāh upon you. And lawful to you are [all others] beyond these, [provided] that you seek them [in marriage] with [gifts from] your property, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse. So for whatever you enjoy [of marriage] from them, give them their due compensation as an obligation. And there is no blame upon you for what you mutually agree to beyond the obligation. Indeed, Allāh is ever Knowing and Wise.
فَقَـٰتِلْ فِى سَبِيلِ ٱللَّهِ لَا تُكَلَّفُ إِلَّا نَفْسَكَ ۚ وَحَرِّضِ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ ۖ عَسَى ٱللَّهُ أَن يَكُفَّ بَأْسَ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا۟ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ أَشَدُّ بَأْسًا وَأَشَدُّ تَنكِيلًا
So fight, [O Muḥammad], in the cause of Allāh; you are not held responsible except for yourself. And encourage the believers [to join you] that perhaps Allāh will restrain the [military] might of those who disbelieve. And Allāh is greater in might and stronger in [exemplary] punishment.
وَكَيْفَ تَأْخُذُونَهُۥ وَقَدْ أَفْضَىٰ بَعْضُكُمْ إِلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَأَخَذْنَ مِنكُم مِّيثَـٰقًا غَلِيظًا
And how could you take it while you have gone in unto each other and they have taken from you a solemn covenant?
وَإِن يَتَفَرَّقَا يُغْنِ ٱللَّهُ كُلًّا مِّن سَعَتِهِۦ ۚ وَكَانَ ٱللَّهُ وَٰسِعًا حَكِيمًا
But if they separate [by divorce], Allāh will enrich each [of them] from His abundance. And ever is Allāh Encompassing and Wise.